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Project Diary: disenfranchised grief
...loving son brother mother sister aunty athlete musician classmate snappy dresser fun-loving uncle father friend or fan...
James O'Brien
Sep 21, 20243 min read


Project Diary: looking for the light in their eyes
LaRhonda was a teacher in West Oakland who was befriended by Khadija, Marilyn’s daughter, and then became very close to Marilyn. She knew...
James O'Brien
Sep 19, 20243 min read


Project Diary: a memory of kindness
If she remembers anything, perhaps she remembers not being alone at that moment of despair.
James O'Brien
Sep 16, 20242 min read


Project Diary: no starker contrast to hate
This is live-preserving work, it is the work of helping traumatized, devastated people begin to be reborn...
James O'Brien
Sep 10, 20242 min read


Project Diary: a moment of love can change the world
KWP crisis responders are interrupters of hate, savers of the lives of the living; they prevent retaliation. They deliver love.
James O'Brien
Sep 4, 20244 min read


Project Diary: foreshadowing in Sarasota
She had raised this person who possessed the vision necessary to discover, and deliver a previously unrecognized human right
James O'Brien
Aug 27, 20241 min read


Project Diary: The Oakland Quartet
Four of the pieces I wrote for San Francisco Magazine about Oakland. Together, they present a picture of a fascinating, complicated,...
James O'Brien
Aug 21, 20241 min read


Project Diary: so did she rise, after stark loss
So did she rise, after stark loss, economic struggle, civic neglect, disillusionment, obscurity, isolation, out of darkness, out of Oakland.
James O'Brien
Jul 30, 20241 min read


Project Diary: "They want(ed) their daddy"
They don’t care who their daddy has been running around with, they don’t care if daddy don’t have a job, that he ain’t had a bath...
James O'Brien
Jul 23, 20242 min read


Project Diary: never hopeless
Her faith was strong, girded and steely, if rarely worn on the sleeve. Tragedy did not diminish it...
James O'Brien
Jul 12, 20241 min read


Project Diary: Trophies
“They said that when they went to raid their house, they would have shrines, they would have that that dreadlock, hanging on their wall."
James O'Brien
Jul 8, 20241 min read


Project Diary: my West Oakland blues
I can't seem to get over the destruction -- spiritual, cultural, literal -- of West Oakland.
James O'Brien
Jun 24, 20242 min read


Project Diary: in West Oakland, historic opportunism disguised as optimism
Every folder on West Oakland is full of plans for its revitalization and each plan implies the failure of the last, right up to today.
James O'Brien
Jun 20, 20242 min read


Project Diary: "we don't even have a picture together"
Ashley rested her hand on Jennifer’s head and leaned on the casket for the first and only picture of the two of them together.
James O'Brien
Jun 18, 20241 min read


Project Diary: "I know he was on loan from God"
I’m not a foolish woman. I know he was on loan from God for a short period of time. It’s never going to be long enough.
James O'Brien
Jun 17, 20241 min read


Project Diary: they called it "going out"
To a dark deserted back country of the mind...
James O'Brien
Jun 14, 20242 min read


Project Diary: "God sent me to her, God sent me to her. Or sent her to me"
He'd seen her on the news, talking about her lost son, about what the city needed to do for its wounded and traumatized families...
James O'Brien
Jun 14, 20241 min read


Project Diary: "you're 18, it's summer, you graduated"
Even that night that K didn’t come home -- that early August night in 2000 -- when you hear his sister describe it, you realize how...
obrien-jim
Jun 14, 20241 min read


Project Diary: newsworthy
Back when Khadafy Washington was killed, at age 18, in August of 2000, the violent killing of a black man in Oakland seems often to have...
obrien-jim
Jun 14, 20241 min read


Project Diary: "you might as well come out nekked"
I think Marilyn discovered a previously-unrecognized human right to support after the violent death of a loved one...
James O'Brien
Jun 13, 20241 min read
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